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’ when I’m in a situation that hurts or annoys me and this goddess-thinking prevents me from acting needy or overly emotional!Your advice has helped me tremendously in being able to finally a great guy!! We have been exclusive for four months and just recently went on a fabulous trip.I really appreciate your advice and have listened to your CD over and over again.
So if you or any of the other ladies reading this have wondered whether you’re erring on the side of calling too much, ask yourself whether the energy of your calling is one of neediness, desperation or . So once you’re in a committed relationship, don’t be surprised if you’re doing most of the calling. That’s the whole point of real intimacy: the ability to be vulnerable with each other.
Notice how in both Scenario A and Scenario B, the ladies have called their men 4 times in a 5-day stretch. In B, the guy’s thinking he’s got an amazingly self-sufficient girlfriend who barely needs to call him. There’s a whole section on which should be mandatory reading for all of you.
But the fourth call in Scenario A is more likely to be welcome than the one in Scenario B. 3) Trust your intuition without dumping on him too much.
Human beings are phenomenally good at noticing deviations from a baseline.
So as soon as you’re in an established intimate relationship, decide how often you want to speak to him, and establish that as a baseline.
Anyway your help would be greatly appreciated :)) Goodness gracious, Jill!